We are often told that diligence is a virtue, a prerequisite for success. For much of my life, I lived by this creed. I pushed myself relentlessly, driven by a desire for results. Yet, this "virtue" came with a heavy price. Whenever I exerted effort, I felt an overwhelming pressure. My mind became restless, my pace hurried, and I would work tirelessly, completely forgetting the necessity of rest.
The physical toll was significant. Between the ages of thirty and my late forties, I suffered from recurring duodenal ulcers—a painful reminder from my body that my drive was out of sync with my well-being. Paradoxically, when I tried to swing the pendulum the other way to relax, I found myself falling into the trap of laziness and negligence. I was caught between two extremes: a burning intensity that consumed me, and a lethargic slackness that led nowhere.
After more than twenty years of practicing Buddhism, I have discovered the secret to harmonizing these two states. It lies in Prajna, or the Wisdom of Emptiness.
The Paradox of Selfless Action
In the Diamond Sutra, one of the most revered texts in Mahayana Buddhism, there is a profound passage that addresses this exact tension:
"All living beings will eventually be led by me to the final Nirvana... yet when this innumerable, immeasurable, infinite number of beings has become liberated, in truth not a single being has been liberated."
To the modern ear, this sounds like a riddle. Why work so hard to help others if "no one" is being helped? The answer lies in the dissolution of the "self." When we work with an attachment to our own ego—the "I" who is working and the "result" that I must achieve—we create tension. When we apply this to our daily tasks, the "I" who is striving disappears. There is no longer a self to be stressed and no rigid result to cling to.
Emptying the Emptiness
This wisdom is further refined in the Mahaprajnaparamita Sastra (The Treatise on the Great Perfection of Wisdom), which offers a powerful metaphor known as "the emptiness of emptiness" (空亦復空).
Imagine a torch used to burn away a pile of debris. Once the debris is consumed, what do we do with the torch? If we keep holding it, it will eventually burn our hand. The treatise suggests that the torch itself—symbolizing the wisdom we use to destroy our attachments—must also be thrown into the fire.
Wisdom is a tool, not a new object of attachment. Even the concept of "emptiness" must be let go of so that it does not become another rigid dogma.
The Equilibrium of the Middle Way
Cultivating this wisdom is not an overnight task. It requires immersing oneself in the Prajna scriptures—such as the Heart Sutra or the Great Prajna Sutra—and constantly reminding ourselves in daily life that all phenomena are "empty." In Buddhism, "emptiness" (Sunyata) does not mean "nothingness." It means that everything arises due to causes and conditions; nothing has a fixed, permanent essence.
When we integrate even a small spark of this Prajna wisdom into our lives, the struggle between relaxation and diligence begins to dissolve.
With this perspective, you can work deeply and effectively because you are no longer obsessed with the ego's thirst for a specific outcome. You perform what needs to be done with a sense of calm and ease. Conversely, when you rest, you do not fall into laziness, because you understand that true diligence is not about frantic activity, but about sustaining an unfettered awareness that clings to nothing.
By "emptying" our attachment to the effort itself, we finally find the balance we’ve been seeking. We become like a well-tuned string instrument: not too tight to snap, and not too loose to be silent, but perfectly tuned to play the music of a mindful life.
Luke Lin 4/6/2026