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The apprentice corrects the teacher, and the Buddha agrees
Confirmed by direct reading, the acrobat's own proposal — mutual watching, “guarding and looking after each other” — is directly rejected by his own apprentice, who insists instead that “you look after yourself, and I shall look after myself.” The Buddha's own explicit endorsement — “that's the way... it's just as Medakathālikā said” — confirms her answer, not the teacher's, as correct.
A reciprocal claim, stated in both directions
The Buddha's own core teaching — “looking after yourself, you look after others; and looking after others, you look after yourself” — is confirmed by direct reading to be stated as a genuine two-way relationship, not merely that self-care happens to also help others, but that each form of care actually constitutes the other.
Two distinct mechanisms for the two directions
The discourse's own explanation gives two DIFFERENT mechanisms for the two directions, confirmed by direct reading: looking after others by looking after yourself happens “by development, cultivation, and practice of meditation”; looking after yourself by looking after others happens “by acceptance, harmlessness, love, and sympathy” — two distinct paths, not one mechanism applied twice.
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§1 — the pole acrobat and MedakathālikāAt one time the Buddha was staying in the land of the Sumbhas, near the town of the Sumbhas named Sedaka. There the Buddha addressed the mendicants: “Once upon a time, mendicants, a pole acrobat of the corpse-workers set up the bamboo pole of his tribe and said to his apprentice Medakathālikā, ‘Come now, dear Medakathālikā, climb up the bamboo pole and stand above my shoulders.’ ‘Yes, tutor,’ she replied. She climbed up the bamboo pole and stood above her tutor’s shoulders. Then the pole acrobat of the corpse-workers said to Medakathālikā, ‘You look after me, dear Medakathālikā, and I shall look after you. That’s how, guarding and looking after each other, we’ll display our skill, collect our fee, and get down safely from the bamboo pole.’ When he said this, Medakathālikā said to her teacher, ‘That’s not how it will be, tutor! You look after yourself, and I shall look after myself. That’s how, guarding and looking after ourselves, we’ll display our skill, collect our fee, and get down safely from the bamboo pole.’
§2 — the Buddha's own endorsementThat’s the way,” said the Buddha. “It’s just as Medakathālikā said to her tutor. Thinking ‘I’ll look after myself,’ you should cultivate mindfulness meditation. Thinking ‘I’ll look after others,’ you should cultivate mindfulness meditation. Looking after yourself, you look after others; and looking after others, you look after yourself.
§3 — two mechanisms for a reciprocal teachingAnd how do you look after others by looking after yourself? By development, cultivation, and practice of meditation. And how do you look after yourself by looking after others? By acceptance, harmlessness, love, and sympathy. Thinking ‘I’ll look after myself,’ you should cultivate mindfulness meditation. Thinking ‘I’ll look after others,’ you should cultivate mindfulness meditation. Looking after yourself, you look after others; and looking after others, you look after yourself.”
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