Reading guide
A battle won by not fighting
The second verse states the poem's central paradox plainly: ‘when you get angry at an angry person you just make things worse for yourself... when you don't get angry at an angry person you win a battle hard to win’. Restraint is reframed not as passivity but as the harder, more decisive victory.
Two named similes, invoked rather than retold
The fifth verse doesn't retell either simile in full — it simply names them, trusting the listener already knows the stories: ‘reflect on the simile of the saw (kakacūpamaṅ)’ for anger, ‘remember the simile of the child's flesh (puttamaṅsūpamaṅ)’ for craving. Both are already translated in full on this site: the saw simile as MN 21, The Simile of the Saw, and the child's-flesh simile as SN 12.63, A Child's Flesh.
Healing both sides of a conflict
The fourth verse makes an unusual claim: ‘people inexpert in the teaching consider one who heals both oneself and the other to be a fool’. What looks, from outside, like weakness or foolishness — refusing to escalate a quarrel — is reframed as the wiser course, one simply unrecognized by those who don't understand the teaching.
A cow eating grain, for a wandering mind
The final verse closes on a third, unnamed simile of its own: a mind running toward sensual pleasures and future lives should be curbed with mindfulness ‘as one would curb a greedy cow eating grain’. This homely, everyday image contrasts with the two weightier named similes invoked two verses earlier.
A practical manual in miniature
Across six verses, this poem moves from a rhetorical question about anger's absence, through a paradox about who really wins a quarrel, to two specific named similes serving as memory-aids, and finally to a third homely image — assembling, in effect, a compact practical toolkit for meeting anger and craving as they arise, rather than a single sustained argument.
Key terms
The text
§1Whence anger for one free of anger, tamed, living justly, freed by right knowledge, peaceful and unaffected?
§2When you get angry at an angry person you just make things worse for yourself. When you don’t get angry at an angry person you win a battle hard to win.
§3When you know that the other is angry, you act for the good of both yourself and the other if you’re mindful and stay calm.
§4People inexpert in the teaching consider one who heals both oneself and the other to be a fool.
§5If anger arises in you, reflect on the simile of the saw; if craving for flavors arises in you, remember the simile of the child’s flesh.
§6If your mind runs off to sensual pleasures and future lives, quickly curb it with mindfulness, as one would curb a greedy cow eating grain.
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