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The teaching in one sentence
The same small thing the Buddha asks us to give up is a heavy yoke to the foolish who cling and resent (like a quail bound by a vine), and a rotten thread to the wise who release it gladly (like an elephant snapping a harness); for what binds is not the size of the possession but the grip of the heart — and the Buddha recommends letting go of every fetter, up to and including the subtlest meditative attainment.
A monk’s gratitude: the goblin in the night
The discourse opens warmly. Udāyī recalls the history of the meal training. The monks once ate three times a day, including at night; when the Buddha asked them to give up the wrong-time meals, they were “sad and upset” — the householders gave such delicious food, and the night meal was “the more delicious of the two.” Yet out of “fondness and respect for the Buddha, and a sense of conscience and prudence,” they let it go. And looking back, Udāyī sees it was a gift: night begging had been dangerous and degrading — monks fell into sewers, hit thorn bushes, blundered into sleeping cattle, ran into criminals, were propositioned. His own humiliation at the hands of the terrified woman crystallizes the lesson. The rule that had felt like a deprivation was in truth a liberation. What looks like loss can be relief.
The quail and the elephant
The Buddha turns this into a study of two kinds of person. When he asks “futile people” to give up some small thing, they scoff: “What, such a trivial, trifling thing? This ascetic is much too strict!” They refuse, and nurse bitterness — and for them that little thing becomes “a strong, firm, stout bond… a heavy yoke.” The image is the quail: a small bird tied with a vine, waiting to be injured, caged, or killed. For so weak a creature, even a rotten vine is an unbreakable chain. So with the foolish: even a trivial attachment binds them utterly, because they have no strength to release it.
But when the Buddha asks “gentlemen” to give up the same thing, they say: “What, we just have to give up such a trifling thing, when the Blessed One asks it?” They release it without resentment, and “live relaxed, unruffled… their hearts free as a wild deer.” For them that bond is “weak, feeble, rotten, and insubstantial.” The image is the elephant: a great bull bound with a strong harness, who “by just twisting its body a little” breaks the bonds and goes where it wants. The very same harness that would hold a quail forever is nothing to an elephant. The bond’s power is entirely in the one who is bound.
The poor man and the rich man
A second pair drives the point deeper, and overturns an easy assumption. The poor man has only a broken-down hovel, a broken couch, one grain-pot, and “a single wifey, not the best sort.” He admires the monastic life and longs to go forth — but “he is not able to give up” even these shabby possessions. For him they are “a strong, firm bond, a heavy yoke.” The rich man has “a vast amount of gold, grain, fields, lands, wives, and servants” — and when he longs to go forth, he is able to give it all up. For him those great possessions are “weak, feeble, rotten, and insubstantial.” The lesson is striking: it is not the size of what we hold that binds us. The poor man cannot release a hovel; the wise rich man releases a fortune. Renunciation is a strength of heart, not a poverty of circumstance — and clinging is a weakness that the smallest thing can expose.
The four individuals
The Buddha then sorts practitioners by how they handle the “memories and thoughts connected with attachments” that arise as they practice letting go:
- One who, when such thoughts arise, tolerates them and does not get rid of them — “fettered, not detached.”
- One who, when they arise, does not tolerate them but destroys them — still “fettered, not detached.”
- One in whom they arise only occasionally, through a lapse of mindfulness; mindfulness returns slowly, but then “quickly” destroys them — like a drop of water on an iron cauldron heated all day, which falls slowly but evaporates at once — still “fettered, not detached.”
- One who, “understanding that attachment is the root of suffering, is freed with the ending of attachments” — “detached, not fettered.”
The surprise is that the first three — including the one who instantly destroys every stray thought — are all still called “fettered.” The struggle to suppress, however skilled, is itself a sign that something remains to be suppressed. Only the fourth, in whom attachment is uprooted at the source so that the thoughts no longer arise, is truly “detached.” The Buddha judges each “by the disparity of faculties” — meeting people where they are, while naming the goal honestly.
A pleasure to fear, a pleasure to cultivate
Lest letting-go be mistaken for a flat rejection of all happiness, the Buddha draws a sharp line. The pleasure of the five senses — sensual pleasure — he calls “a filthy, ordinary, ignoble pleasure… not to be cultivated, but to be feared.” But the bliss of the four absorptions he calls “the pleasure of renunciation, of seclusion, of peace, of awakening” — and this pleasure “should be cultivated and developed, and should not be feared.” The path does not renounce happiness; it trades a poisoned happiness for a wholesome one. There is a joy that binds and a joy that frees, and the practitioner learns to fear the first and pursue the second.
“Give it up, go beyond”
And yet — the final turn — even the wholesome bliss of the absorptions is not the end. The Buddha distinguishes the “perturbable” states (the first three absorptions, where something still stirs — thought, rapture, refined bliss) from the “imperturbable” fourth. Then he climbs a ladder: of each attainment in turn — the four absorptions, then infinite space, infinite consciousness, nothingness, neither-perception-nor-non-perception, and finally the cessation of perception and feeling — he says, “This is not enough, I say: give it up, go beyond it.” He recommends relinquishing even the most exalted state a being can reach. The discourse ends with the question that gathers the whole teaching: “Do you see any fetter, large or small, that I do not recommend giving up?” — “No, sir.” From the night-time meal to the summit of meditation, the instruction is one and the same: hold nothing; let everything go.
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A monk’s gratitude
§4–6So I have heard. At one time the Buddha was staying in the land of the Aṅguttarāpans, near Āpaṇa. The Buddha and Venerable Udāyī each went to a forest grove for the day’s meditation. As Udāyī sat in retreat, this thought came to him: “The Buddha has rid us of so many things that bring suffering and gifted us so many things that bring happiness! He has rid us of so many unskillful things and gifted us so many skillful things!” In the late afternoon he went to the Buddha and told him: “We used to eat at dusk, at daybreak, and at the wrong time of day. When the Buddha asked us to give up the wrong-time meal, we were sad and upset — ‘these faithful householders give us delicious food, and the Blessed One tells us to give it up!’ But considering our fondness and respect for the Buddha, and our conscience and prudence, we gave it up.”
“Then we ate at dusk and daybreak. When the Buddha asked us to give up the night meal too, we were sad — ‘that’s the more delicious of the two!’ But we gave it up. In the past, mendicants went for alms in the dark of the night, and walked into a swamp, or fell into a sewer, or hit a thorn bush, or collided with a sleeping cow, or met criminals, or were propositioned. Once I myself was going for alms in the dark, and a woman washing a pot saw me by a flash of lightning. Startled, she cried, ‘Woe is me! It’s a damn goblin!’ I said, ‘Sister, I am no goblin; I’m a mendicant waiting for alms.’ She retorted, ‘Die, mendicant’s father! Die, mendicant’s mother! Better to have your belly sliced open with a sharp cleaver than to wander for alms in the dark for the sake of your belly!’ Recollecting that, I thought how the Buddha has rid us of so much suffering and gifted us so much happiness.”
The quail
§7–8“This is exactly what happens, Udāyī, when some futile people are told by me to give something up. They say, ‘What, such a trivial, trifling thing as this? This ascetic is much too strict!’ They don’t give it up, and they nurse bitterness towards me; and for the mendicants who want to train, that becomes a strong, firm, stout bond, a tie that has not rotted, and a heavy yoke. Suppose a quail was tied with a vine, and was waiting there to be injured, caged, or killed. Would it be right to say that, for that quail, that vine is weak, feeble, rotten, and insubstantial?” “No, sir. For that quail, that vine is a strong, firm, stout bond, a heavy yoke.” “In the same way, when some futile people are told by me to give something up… that becomes a strong, firm bond, a heavy yoke.”
The elephant
§9–10“But when some gentlemen are told by me to give something up, they say, ‘What, we just have to give up such a trivial thing, when the Blessed One asks it?’ They give it up, and don’t nurse bitterness; and the mendicants who want to train, having given it up, live relaxed, unruffled, surviving on charity, their hearts free as a wild deer. For them, that bond is weak, feeble, rotten, and insubstantial. Suppose there was a royal bull elephant, pedigree and battle-hardened, bound with a strong harness. But just by twisting its body a little, it would break its bonds and go wherever it wants. Would it be right to say that, for that elephant, the harness is a strong, firm bond, a heavy yoke?” “No, sir. For that elephant, the harness is weak, feeble, rotten, and insubstantial.” “In the same way, for the gentlemen, that bond is weak, feeble, rotten, and insubstantial.”
The four individuals
§14–17“Udāyī, these four individuals are found in the world. Take one practicing to give up attachments. When memories and thoughts connected with attachments beset them, they tolerate them and don’t get rid of them. I call this individual ‘fettered’, not ‘detached’. Take another: when such thoughts beset them, they don’t tolerate them but destroy them. I also call this individual ‘fettered’. Take another: such thoughts beset them only occasionally, through loss of mindfulness; mindfulness arises slowly, but then they quickly destroy them — like two or three drops of water falling on an iron cauldron heated all day, which fall slowly but quickly evaporate. I also call this individual ‘fettered’. But take one who, understanding that attachment is the root of suffering, is freed with the ending of attachments. I call this individual ‘detached’, not ‘fettered’. These are the four individuals found in the world.”
A pleasure to fear, a pleasure to cultivate
§18–21“Udāyī, there are these five kinds of sensual stimulation — sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and touches that are likable, desirable, agreeable, pleasant, and arousing. The pleasure that arises from these is called sensual pleasure — a filthy, ordinary, ignoble pleasure. Such pleasure should not be cultivated or developed, but should be feared, I say. But take a mendicant who enters and remains in the first, second, third, and fourth absorptions. This is called the pleasure of renunciation, the pleasure of seclusion, the pleasure of peace, the pleasure of awakening. Such pleasure should be cultivated and developed, and should not be feared, I say.”
Perturbable and imperturbable
§22–25“The first absorption belongs to the perturbable, I say — for the placing of the mind and keeping it connected have not ceased there. The second — for rapture and bliss have not ceased. The third — for bliss-with-equanimity has not ceased. But the fourth absorption belongs to the imperturbable.”
“Give it up, go beyond”
§26–34“Take a mendicant who enters the first absorption. But this is not enough, I say: give it up, go beyond it. And what goes beyond it? The second absorption. But this too is not enough: give it up, go beyond it.” And so through the third and fourth absorptions, and the dimensions of infinite space, infinite consciousness, nothingness, and neither perception nor non-perception — of each, “this too is not enough; give it up, go beyond it” — up to the cessation of perception and feeling. “So, Udāyī, I even recommend giving up the dimension of neither perception nor non-perception. Do you see any fetter, large or small, that I don’t recommend giving up?” “No, sir.” That is what the Buddha said. Satisfied, Venerable Udāyī approved what the Buddha said.
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