Saṃyutta Nikāya · Discourse 3.4

Loved

Piyasutta

Setting
At Sāvatthī; no further narrative detail given
Speakers
King Pasenadi of Kosala, reporting his own private reflection, and the Buddha
Form
A first-person reported reflection, the Buddha's confirmation, and a four-stanza verse
Length
~2 minutes to read
Northern parallel
A rough counterpart may exist in the Chinese Saṃyukta-āgama (T99), though this reading guide does not assert a specific matching sutra number
Difficulty
★★★☆☆ — the king's own reasoning is worth following as closely as the Buddha's confirming verse

Why this discourse

This discourse begins not with a question but with Pasenadi reporting his own completed reasoning: reflecting privately on who truly loves themselves, he concludes that those who do bad things by body, speech, and mind don't really love themselves, whatever they may say, because they treat themselves like an enemy — and those who do good things do love themselves, because they treat themselves like a loved one. The Buddha confirms this reasoning as entirely correct and adds a verse on what a person actually takes with them at death.

Reading guide

A king's own reasoning, not a question

Unlike this saṃyutta's other discourses so far, Pasenadi does not ask a question here; he reports a chain of reasoning he has already worked through alone in private retreat, arriving at his own conclusion before ever bringing it to the Buddha.

Self-love redefined through action, not declaration

The king's insight turns on a distinction between what people say and what their actions reveal: someone can say ‘I love myself’ while acting against their own good, and someone else can say ‘I don't love myself’ while consistently acting for their own genuine benefit — declared self-regard and actual self-regard treated as potentially opposite.

Treating oneself as enemy or as loved one

The reasoning's pivot is a single image applied two ways: bad conduct treats oneself ‘like an enemy’, good conduct treats oneself ‘like a loved one’ — making self-love a matter of how one is treated by one's own actions, not a feeling reported about oneself.

An elided repeat before the new verse

The Buddha's confirmation includes repeating the king's own statement, elided as blank segments in the source following this book's established convention, before adding new verses that were not part of the king's original reflection.

What goes with you like a shadow

The Buddha's added verses shift from the king's frame (self-love through conduct) to a related but distinct question: what does a person actually take with them at death? The answer — the good and bad they have done, ‘like a shadow that never leaves’ — extends the king's insight into this collection's broader concern with what follows a person beyond this life.

Key terms

attānaṁ piyaṁ — “loving oneself” — the quality the king's private reflection sets out to define, through conduct rather than declaration.
verūpama — “like an enemy” — how bad conduct is said to treat the self, revealing a lack of genuine self-love.
piyūpama — “like a loved one” — the contrasting treatment good conduct affords the self.
antaka — “the terminator” — the verse's figure for death, who seizes a person as they give up human life.
chāyāva anapāyinī — “like a shadow that never leaves” — the verse's image for what a person's own good and bad deeds do at death.

The text

The discourse in full, with the Buddha's elided repeat of the king's own words skipped as blank in the source. Translation: Bhikkhu Sujato (CC0, SuttaCentral).

§1At Sāvatthī. Seated to one side, King Pasenadi said to the Buddha, “Just now, sir, as I was in private retreat this thought came to mind. ‘Who are those who love themselves? And who are those who don’t love themselves?’ Then it occurred to me: ‘Those who do bad things by way of body, speech, and mind don’t love themselves. Even though they may say: “I love myself”, they don’t really. Why is that? It’s because they treat themselves like an enemy. That’s why they don’t love themselves. Those who do good things by way of body, speech, and mind do love themselves. Even though they may say: “I don’t love myself”, they do really. Why is that? It’s because they treat themselves like a loved one. That’s why they do love themselves.’”

§2“That’s so true, great king! That’s so true!” said the Buddha. And he repeated the king’s statement, adding:

§3“If you knew your self as beloved, you’d not yoke yourself to wickedness. For happiness is not easy to find by someone who does bad deeds.

§4When you’re seized by the terminator as you give up your human life, what can you call your own? What do you take when you go? What goes with you, like a shadow that never leaves? Both the good and the bad that a mortal does in this life is what they can call their own. That’s what they take when they go. That’s what goes with them, like a shadow that never leaves.

§5That’s why you should do good, investing in the future life. The good deeds of sentient beings support them in the next world.”

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Self-check quiz

Ten questions. Click an answer to see immediate feedback. No score is recorded — this is for your own checking.

Question 1 of 10
How does this discourse begin, unlike this saṃyutta's other discourses so far?
Correct: A. The king arrives at his own conclusion in private retreat before bringing it to the Buddha.
Question 2 of 10
What conclusion does Pasenadi reach about those who do bad things?
Correct: A. Distinguishing declared self-regard from what actions actually reveal.
Question 3 of 10
What image does the king's reasoning use to explain bad conduct?
Correct: A. Making self-love a matter of how one's own actions treat oneself.
Question 4 of 10
What image does the king's reasoning use for good conduct?
Correct: A. The direct contrast to the enemy image used for bad conduct.
Question 5 of 10
How does the Buddha respond to the king's reasoning?
Correct: A. “That's so true, great king! That's so true!” followed by an elided repeat.
Question 6 of 10
What new question do the Buddha's added verses address?
Correct: A. Extending the king's frame into this collection's concern with what follows death.
Question 7 of 10
What does the verse say a person takes with them at death?
Correct: A. The verse's central answer, closing on the shadow image.
Question 8 of 10
How is death itself figured in this verse?
Correct: A. A figure (antaka) named directly in the verse's opening stanza.
Question 9 of 10
Where is this discourse set?
Correct: A. A bare setting note, consistent with several discourses in this collection.
Question 10 of 10
How does this discourse's structure handle the Buddha's repetition of the king's words?
Correct: A. Consistent with the elided-repeat convention used elsewhere in this collection.
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