Reading guide
An unnamed voice, consoling a specific grief
‘One whose path you do not know... you mourn that being, crying, “Oh my son!”’ opens a four-verse address to someone grieving a dead child — the speaker is not named in the text itself, only identified by the poem's own closing colophon as having addressed Paṭācārā.
An argument from not-knowing, not from doctrine recited
The consoling voice reasons from ignorance itself: ‘as he came, so he went: why weep over that?’ — you cannot know where a being came from or where it goes, so grief for one arrival and departure, among countless others, makes little sense.
The exact reply Ubbirī once gave
‘Oh! For you have plucked the arrow from me... today I've plucked the arrow, I'm hungerless, quenched. I go for refuge to that sage, the Buddha, to his teaching, and to the Sangha’ repeats, almost word for word, the reply Ubbirī gave in Thig 3.5 — the same formula, now given to Paṭācārā's own grief.
A colophon that completes an earlier omission
‘That is how Paṭācārā, who had a following of five hundred, declared her enlightenment’ confirms directly what Thig 5.10 left unstated — this fuller title marking her later fame, arriving only after this poem has shown what that fame grew out of.
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The text
§1“One whose path you do not know, not whence they came nor where they went; though they came from who knows where, you mourn that being, crying, ‘Oh my son!’ But one whose path you do know, whence they came or where they went; that one you do not lament—such is the nature of living creatures. Unasked he came, he left without leave. He must have come from somewhere, and stayed who knows how many days. He left from here by one road, he will go from there by another. Departing with the form of a human, he will go on transmigrating. As he came, so he went: why weep over that?”
§2“Oh! For you have plucked the arrow from me, so hard to see, stuck in the heart. You’ve swept away the grief for my son, in which I once was mired. Today I’ve plucked the arrow, I’m hungerless, quenched. I go for refuge to that sage, the Buddha, to his teaching, and to the Sangha.”
§3That is how Paṭācārā, who had a following of five hundred, declared her enlightenment.
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